The former New England Patriots linebacker has joined the conversation after Arabia and Alexis Samone shared a video documenting their unusual household, where both women say they are raising children with the NFL player.

NFL linebacker Matthew Judon has become the subject of widespread social media discussion after two women, identified as Arabia and Alexis Samone, revealed that they both have children with him and live together in the same household.

The revelation came in an Instagram video shared by Arabia, who uses the handle @arabiaimanx. In the clip, she and Samone, known online as @infamousbiglexx, introduced viewers to their family arrangement while preparing a meal for Judon, who they said was returning home from a trip.

“So, as many of y’all know, I have a baby by Matthew Judon,” Arabia began, pointing to a child named Roman before introducing Simone.

Samone then added, “And I also have a baby by Matthew Judon.”

Arabia followed with : “And we all live together in this happy home.”

Judon played for the San Francisco 49ers in October 2026, but the team released him from its practice squad on October 10. He is currently listed as a free agent, with no confirmed retirement. 

The video captured an ordinary domestic scene, although the circumstances behind it were far from conventional.

Arabia who is a NFL sportscaster explained that Judon was travelling home by plane and had requested chicken and waffles, while Simone was preparing buffalo chicken dip.

“He wanted it hot and ready,” Arabia said, explaining that Simone had already completed her dish and was washing dishes while she continued working on the chicken and waffles.

The meal preparations were interrupted by the absence of a waffle maker, prompting the women to joke that Judon might receive pancakes instead.

Throughout the exchange, both women repeatedly referred to Judon as “Massa,” a term that‘a mostly bordered from plantation life.

“We are all in this together. We got one massa,” Samone stated.

Arabia agreed, responding, “We’re all in this together.”

The comments appeared to be delivered humorously, although neither woman explained whether the terminology had any significance beyond their playful exchange.

Despite the unusual introduction, the women appeared comfortable discussing their shared household publicly.

Arabia revealed that documenting their lifestyle was something they had considered for some time.

“We’ve been wanting to document our life, an unorthodox life, for a minute,” she explained, adding that logistical challenges had previously delayed the project.

The clip concluded with the women suggesting that viewers could expect future episodes.

Matthew Judon Responds to the Video

Judon, a four-time Pro Bowl selection who previously played for the Baltimore Ravens, New England Patriots and Atlanta Falcons, subsequently entered the discussion through his verified Instagram account, @man_dammn9.

“Hello everyone I’m the matthew in question in this video,” he wrote in the comment section.

He then addressed several details from the video, beginning with the meal.

“Food was good if yall was wondering,” he wrote.

The linebacker jokingly added that phone privileges had been suspended for a week, before telling viewers to “let the program be the program.”

He concluded by teasing an upcoming ebook and wishing followers a blessed Sunday. Arabia and Mathew are known for their sports content making.

His comment however, attracted thousands of likes and appeared to acknowledge the household portrayed in the video without providing further details about the relationships involved.

Other Instagram users reacted to the apparent arrangement, with some focusing on Judon’s financial position.

“I need to get my money up,” one commenter wrote.

Another remarked, “When your money right they’ll accept ANYTHING!”

The reactions reflected public curiosity about how such a household operates, particularly when multiple adults share parenting and domestic responsibilities.

Have Other NFL Players Had Similar Family Arrangements?

Although Judon’s household has attracted attention, unconventional domestic arrangements are not entirely unprecedented among professional football players.

One notable example involves former Dallas Cowboys linebacker Jeff Rohrer, who publicly discussed sharing a home with his husband, Joshua Ross, his former wife, Heather, and their children.

Rohrer, who married Ross in 2018, described a family arrangement in which his former wife remained part of the household as they continued raising their children.

Former Green Bay Packers defensive end Kabeer Gbaja-Biamila has also publicly discussed unconventional ideas about family and fatherhood.

In a 2020 Sports Illustrated investigation, the former player spoke about his desire to father a large number of children and expressed views about having children with multiple women.